Wedding Birthday
Is it okay to have your wedding the day before or after your sibling’s birthday?
My fiancee is a medical resident (and will be a chief resident w/ more responsibilities) and does not have very large chunks of time where she can have a wedding and a honeymoon afterward. My sister’s birthday is the day after what could be my planned wedding date. My sister is concerned that every year afterwards it’ll be my anniversary and her birthday so close together. It’s not the exact birthdate (day before) but close. Given the circumstances, which way would you lean?
I would do my best to take my sis’s feelings into consideration, but I’d go ahead with the wedding plans. I’m going to guess that your sis is either the baby in the family or the only girl 
This is kinda childish behavior. She should be happy for you. It is nice that she is able to be honest with you and that you and her are close enough that this even concerns her…so don’t let it turn into a big deal that hurts her feelings (if that can be avoided). Bring your parents in on it, if that will be constructive. If it will turn into ganging up on her then leave them out.
I’d do something really special for her on this bday before the wedding…and tell her that even as busy as you and new wife are SIS is still very special and not forgotten, and never will be!! Maybe even have a special little bday cake at the wedding and have her own cutting ceremony…if that’s ok with your wife…do it funny and cute…put sparklers in the cake…make it goofy so it’s a good memory and not done to shut her up…do it from the heart. If wife doesn’t go for that then at least you do something special for her on your own, take her out to her fav restaurant, send her flowers…something sincere.
…if nothing else tell her that you’re choosing this date so that you’ll NEVER forget your anniversary and end up in trouble LOL!!
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